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Without a doubt, educating our children is one of the most important undertakings parents must embark upon. That said, we do not believe there is any one RIGHT way to educate. What is right for one family may not be right for their neighbor. The choices we make in education do not a good or bad parent make.

We have chosen public education for our five kids. Was this an easy decision? One we made without looking at all of our options? One made without evaluating and seriously considering the impact this would make on our children? The answer to all these questions is a resounding, “No”.

Many of the reasons for choosing a method of education are quite personal. We do believe in supporting our public schools. It is also a factor that we pay taxes for public schools and the financial burden of private education would be difficult to manage with our five kids. It is also our strong belief that if involved parents continue to rip their children from the public education system… we will lose a lot. Our children learn diversity, they learn personal responsibility, they learn to stand on their own in addition to the basics. These opportunities are no less important to our family than learning to read and write. Our children must learn to not only cope, but thrive in this world. That is our PRIMARY responsibility as parents. This can occur even in a public school setting.

You may wonder why we don’t home school. It doesn’t carry the financial burden of private education. It is my firm belief that homeschooling can be beautiful and work very well for some families, but it isn’t the answer for every family. There are days when I want to home school with every fiber of my being, but those days are outweighed by the positive things I see in my children from their school experience. I majored in Education and would be one of those Moms who could make homeschooling not only work, but turn it into a fun and enriching experience for our children and myself. I don’t feel we have been called to home school our family, at least not at this point in our lives.

Recently, we attended a parenting conference that reinforced our belief that public education was the right choice for our children. We also brought home a book which we are reading and re-reading. There is a quote I will use for the rest of my life found on page 21; “Yes! We definitely homeschool our children… and starting at age five, we also send them to public school to get more information.” (goingpublic by David & Kelli Pritchard)

Isn’t that the truth? Education starts at home. The most prominent impact on the lives of our children are the things that happen within the walls of our home. These are the forming factors that will develop our children into the adults they are destined to become. What I do as a parent CANNOT be diminished by a public education. It can be enhanced. My children can learn that not every family is like ours and that’s okay. They can learn to reach out to those who are hurting… to the bullies and troubled children and show them love and respect. It is our firm believe that our children will prosper in this environment. They will become stronger in their faith as it is challenged, they will learn to respect diversity, they will learn about forgiveness and hospitality.

Perhaps for other families, these same things are accomplished in a home school or private school setting. For our family, we educate at home full time and use the public school system to broaden our experiences.

Update- We continue to daily evaluate each of our children’s education and spiritual needs. TeenGirl has been very ill and it is apparent to us that the public education system is no longer meeting her needs. So, beginning this fall, she will be transitioning to a home based learning environment. We will continue to monitor her progress and be prepared to change again if needed.

Part of our evaluation methods include constant prayer and watching our children’s development and progress in school. I am highly involved in the school system and a constant in their education. We have recently added a religious series on homeschooling and discipleship in the home to our daily evaluations. The day may come when all of our children are home schooled, or we may move our children into different educational environments based on their individual needs. K1 and K2 have prospered and flourished beautifully in their current public school environment so we do not yet see a need for change.

I thank all of you for sharing your experiences, public, private, home and un-schooling with us. Each child is a blessing and unique. We truly value each one of your thoughts, prayers and experiences. Please continue to share!